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I have spoken to few ladies at the verge of marriage and after such discussion 'fear go just grip me' and I'll be like ´ we guys really need a revival ´...

It's all about this very very very and very wrong notion our women to be have about their hubby's family, they be like ´ me send my husband will relocate to _________ after our marriage do that we will be free from any nephew or aunt ´ but I ask them that when she has a bit of problem with the guy, would she mind spending the same cost on transport back to Idanre where her husband's mother resides?

I understand we have heard stories and misleading fictional tales from our home videos but we have been braced with the responsibility to deal with all and any circumstance and running away from our spouse's family would not guarantee a discouragement from the hometown haunting witches our the urban pressure of family demand on the be Mr and Mrs.

This notion is so disapproving, misleading and instead should be discouraged... It is fair enough to require some privacy with your man but it will be wrong to send a push away signal to his family, not only because of troubling times but also in saving family ties which every one of us belong to; the big family tree. It will only get better if we can play a mediatory role in our family and allow love to breed, a responsible man and husband will know how best to deal with family issues; this shouldn't be the responsibility of the wife to don't such battle all in the name of protecting the husband who might later seek shelter amidst his family in doing something displeasing to his wife. No matter how hard we think about it, all parties in marriage are stakeholders and should be treated as such.

In any relationship, it is far dangerous for a woman to witchhaunt than to be witch-haunted, she would be safer to be homely than to be hostile, she might not even know or take cognizance of the physiological effect of brewing hatred in her own children against the extended family and this might cause a discontinuity in a good family.

Instead, a woman should learn to respect, be accommodating and be able to draw a line when it comes to matters relating to her in-laws and pray for favour from God, because there will always be bad eggs in the family but she can always pray for wisdom to handle them.